The contract I provide clients covers what is considered acceptable and unacceptable behavior. The surrogate agrees to share information about the pregnancy. She also agrees to not engage in reckless, irresponsible, or contra-indicated activities, such as riding a horse, getting her nails done with formaldehyde, coloring her hair, drinking alcohol, smoking cigarettes, visiting high crime areas, or not evacuating during a hurricane. If she meets someone while pregnant, perhaps a new boyfriend, they will have a screening before they are sexually active since their private actions could potentially expose the baby to infection. She agrees to a lot of things in the contract.
Once the contract is signed and pregnancy established, there is basically no backing out of the agreement. The contract spells out when there can be a legitimate termination, but it can’t just be from either side that you don’t want to do it anymore. It costs a lot of money even to screen a surrogate. The contract indicates the surrogate will make three attempts, typically over one year.